Etymology and Marriage
One of the challenges in living 58 years as somewhat of a ‘public figure’ who uses words—both in oral presentation and written word— is the way culture and society change the meaning of words. Take for instance the word ‘Shut-up.’ In 58 years here the etymology of ‘shut-up.’ Shut-up was initially a word/phrase that was used as a bold, in your face, rude, and aggressive comment. It was basically the rude way of saying ‘please be quiet.’ As a matter of fact I wasn’t actually allowed to say ‘shut-up’—at least not in the perimeter of my mother. Shut up was later moved to a more pleasant level of asking someone to be quiet. Shut-up became more socially acceptable. In certain times—it was okay to say: ‘Shut-up.’ I have even used the word in public speaking. Shut up, recently has morphed into an exclamation statement. So, if you tell your buddy something like this: “Hey man, I just won the lottery and got a million dollars i...